Monday, August 22, 2011


For more wedding pics and details of the day, go to

Kelly and Joe Hornberger donated their time and talents to capture our special day and we are so thankful.

Hornbergers, thank you for honoring God and blessing others with your lives.

These are the links to other donated photo sessions that the Hornbergers have done for us.

Galveston Engagement Pics -

Chloe's 8 month Photos -

Chloe's Newborn Photos - and

Sunday, August 21, 2011

Quick update...

This post is LONG OVERDUE, but life, along with all the changes that have taken place over the past multiple months have caused "updating the blog" to find it's place near the bottom of the never-ending to do list.

However, here is a quick update...

Jenny and I got married at the end of May on the banks of the Guadalupe River in Spring Branch, TX (about 30 miles north of San Antonio). We had a small ceremony with mainly family and some friends.

At the end of July, we spent a weekend with Brad Wims' parents up in Granbury, TX. Brad's mom, "Nonnie," snapped this picture of us outside of the restaurant after breakfast on Sunday morning. This is the best family photo we have taken so far. Good job, Non!

We are so thankful for the support that Brad's and Sara's families have offered as we embark on this new journey of life.

Here are a few recent pics of Chloe...she's growing up so fast.

The plan is for Jenny and I to combine efforts and start a new blog. However, that is still near the bottom of the to-do list...

Until next time, thanks for checking in on us.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Meet Jenny Wims...

In May 2010, I received an email from a woman who was "walking a similar path" as me. Jenifer Wims lost her husband to a rare form of bone cancer and was raising her 2 children as a single parent. Jenny's husband, Brad, was diagnosed with Chondrosarcoma when she was pregnant with her second child. Brad fought his cancer battle courageously and after multiple trips to Germany for alternative therapy, Brad passed away on March 2, 2009.

After Brad passed away, Jenny was contacted by a few widows/widowers and found comfort in sharing stories with them. She offered that same support to me and I found it very healing to share with someone who had experienced the same loss that I had. She understood the pain that came from losing her spouse and best friend. She also "saw the bigger picture" and trusted that God had a plan for her life.

After a month of emailing back and forth, I called Jenny and we began to converse nightly on the phone. During one of my trips back to Houston to visit family, Chloe and I met Jenny and her kids (Zeke - 7 and Kaelyn - 4). Jenny lives less than 1 mile from the house where Sara grew up (and where Sara's mom still lives).

Jenny, Zeke, and Kaelyn

When Chloe and I got out of the car at Jenny's house, Kaelyn met us at the car and asked, "Where is Chloe's mommy?" I told her that Chloe's mommy was in the same place as her daddy. She smiled and nodded...and truly understood. Jenny, Zeke, Kaelyn, Chloe and I spent the afternoon barbecuing and swimming. Our time together felt so natural. We had a lot to talk about and I felt an immediate bond with Jenny and her kids.

During the months that followed, Jenny and I began dating. Soon after Sara died, I began to pray about the future. Though I did not put a list on paper, in my mind I desired my future wife to be a widow. There is an understanding between those who have lost their mates, and I love the fact that Jenny and I can talk openly about Brad and Sara. I love hearing stories about Brad and Jenny's lives together because that has formed who she is.

Over the past months, Jenny and I have spent lots of time together and our relationship has continued to develop.

Guadalupe Peak in west Texas

Christmas in Houston

Sea World

Randolph AFB Banquet

Watching a movie

During this past week in Lake Tahoe, I asked her to be my wife. We are looking forward to our future together as we mesh our families into one.

To read the Wims' story, go to